Keeping the Writing Process Fun (Even When You're Stuck)

Let’s be honest — writing isn’t always easy. Even when you’re working on a story you love, there are days when the words just won’t come. That’s especially true when you’re writing with kids. So how do we keep the process fun, even when we hit a wall?

We’ve found that the key is playfulness. When things feel stuck, we don’t force it — we shift the energy. Sometimes we act out scenes like we’re in a play. Other times, we turn the story into a drawing challenge or write silly side adventures just for fun.

Laughter is a big part of our process. If we’re not having fun writing the story, we know something’s off. And honestly, some of our favorite lines and ideas have come from moments when we were just goofing around.

Music helps, too. We’ll make playlists that match the story’s vibe, and let that guide the mood. Or we’ll take walks and talk about the story while we’re moving. Fresh air can do wonders.

Another trick? Letting go of perfection. The first draft is supposed to be messy. We remind ourselves — and our kids — that it’s okay to just write something. We can fix it later.

And sometimes, we just take a break. Step away for a few days. Read another book. Watch a movie together. The ideas usually sneak back in when we’re not looking for them.

At the end of the day, writing should feel like an adventure, not a chore. The more joy we bring to the process, the more it shows in the final product. And if we’re having fun, chances are, our readers will too.